Sex Reality Unfolded

My name is Ravi and my wife’s name is Leena. We both grew up in a small, super religious Hindu, conservative family. We were taught that sex was sinful. Even among married couple, sex with life partner was to be made in dark at night only and most of the time with cloths on. Sex before marriage or extramarital sex was made a taboo or sinful desire.

When we married, we indulge in real sex for the first time, but were too dumb as we were never able to express our feelings comfortably or enjoy real pleasures of sex. Any prolonged sex encounters always resulted in somewhat guilt feelings. Since our minds were developed under same conservative influences, so we both felt this kind of thinking was normal and even “righteous”. I was nominated for one year Training in Germany by my company due to my excellent record and this gave us opportunity to see the outside world and other cultures closely.

With the passage of time and exposure, we were able to discover the sexual realities existing in the world. It was totally different world with all concepts quite clear and out of traditional rites. We slowly started opening us up, started enjoying sex outside bedroom, long oral sex sessions, sleeping nude or resting nude in house when possible, watching porn DVDs and video, etc. But inhibitions imbeded in our personalities due to our long dark, conservative and ignorance period were always a hurdles in our real enjoyments due to which we use to also stop such pleasure activities.

 

My real exposure came when I met with an Indian sex therapist during a three weeks course in an international company in Germany. He became a close friend of mine during this period. I returned back to Delhi but remained in contact with him through internet. And after that I also benefited from the Internet (which I spent a lot of my free time on). Sex hidden realities existed around world when revealed to me, surprised me and open my mind up.

I realize that due to ignorance, we wasted time, energies and opportunities which we may enjoy in a better way. I spent half of my life feeling guilty about sex. It took me all that time to realize that living in countries like India how hung up we remain about sex. Some of the major findings revealed to me were as following: Sex is a necessity to keep us fit, healthy, happy and in high spirits. We can enjoy moments of sex pleasures with our opposite sex friends who we come across in life, same way like we enjoy other good moments of friendship, with them.

If we can have frequent dates we can have frequent sex with them. Such relations strengthen our friendship bonds with them, provide pleasure moments, bring happiness in both lives, create an environment of love and understanding in our circle, provided we don’t take it as a sin or guilt feelings. Those who abstain from sex remain frustrated in life, create boredom around themselves, and invite sadness in their life, whereas those who enjoy sex regularly, feel satisfied with life, get best opportunities around them and found most active and happy in life.

I also learned that the natural desire to have sex exists in both men and women equally, unless they suppress it. Women also get stimulated towards a sexy man like men get stimulated to see sexy women. To enjoy sex change is necessary like we need change in food. We can’t eat same food again and again, even if we have the tastiest dish of the world. Similarly, we can’t enjoy sex with one person, again and again.

Excitement comes only when we bring change in partner. Furthermore, I realized that sex with someone other than our partner is not wrong or sinful if you are doing it safely for recreation, excitement and enjoyment with knowledge of your partner. In reality love feelings and sexual desires exist separately from each other i.e. if you have true feeling of love for your life partner, still you may like to have sex with another person and can enjoy best sex pleasures with him too.

Love will never diminish with this act. Your marriage remains stronger and risk of breakage diminishes. In reality this is what is happening around us covertly and it was always existed since the beginning of human history. That is why in most conservative societies of the world, sex still taking place covertly and a good percentage of both men and women enjoy extramarital sex whenever they get chance. This percentage is much higher in open societies. In fact, what come to surface is only 5% of what happens around us and 95% remain embedded as deep secrets among the two sex partners.

You may have people around you whom you think that they are pious and never indulged in extramarital sex, but natural urge would have urged them to enjoy sex when they got right opportunities. That is why stories of even strictly religious people in all religions having sex relations continue to appear in news. Sex is a natural urge both in normal men and women and everyone adopts his/her own ways to satisfy this urge. Some societies adopt various strict ritual, religious taboos and social cults to kill this urge, in order to keep their fake values.

While opening realities existing in the world to me, my sex therapist friend strictly warned me and advised me to use protections and to remain extremely careful of sexually transmitted disease while having extramarital sex, as not only HIV but a lot more other diseases are common. I shared my new findings with my wife. My wife was very cooperative and discussed everything. I told her that in Europe wife swapping in not uncommon. Even parties are organized to enjoy collectively. She was surprised to know this.

But when I told her how new excitement may come in our sexual life if we open ourselves to new sexual partners, my wife denied immediately like any new change and after argument she kept quite. Possibility came to my mind that my wife could be suspicions why she is being pushed to have an affair, she might think that I want to have an affair, or even that I am trying to get her interested in other men so I can get out of the marriage.

But then I realized that she has spent her whole life considering sex as a taboo, to accept new sex partner would be extremely difficult for her especially when she was having no sexual experience before marriage and we spent a lot time with each other only. Next few days during sex I asked her to imagine another man instead of me when I was fucking her. She cooperated and found it extremely pleasurable and realized real excitement.

While talking she agreed and I could feel that how much she loves me and how much faith she had in me. But she expressed her fear to find the right couple. We also promised to each other that it will be only for sexual pleasures and we will remain committed to each other, no matter what closeness we develop with others.We looked into websites and luckily found a website only for those couples, who opt for wife swap. We become member as it was free and safe. Next few days we found a lot of couples, but some were pushy type, some were vulgar, and some were not even trustworthy. Luckily we found a couple like us after few weeks of search. They were Sujeet and Namita. We exchanged few e-mails with them and found this couple very cooperative, friendly and trustworthy like us. However, it was necessary to know more before we start to introduce each other. We used a detailed questionnaire in the light of information on the net and also from a model questionnaire.

We proposed that we both will fill and send this questionnaire to each other at the same time. When I was sending filed questionnaire on the fixed time, we received their response before. This developed a lot of trust among us. We came to know that this was also the first time for this couple. They were non-smoker and non-drinker like us. Dislike anal sex, dislike vulgar language, were clean having no record of any disease. It was also their first time like us. Moreover they were educated and from a well off family. They were also very scared like us.

We were happy as it was lucky match, so we decided to start the chat on the internet. Soon we were chatting each other, feeling comfortable we decided to open the webcam. There was a nice couple and we chatted on different subjects. They were also having children one boy and one girl but much younger to our children. We invited them at home.

On weekend Sujeet and Namita came with their children and we all sat down together and discussed a lot. Namita had culinary talent. She was beautiful, medium height, tanned, and quite voluptuous with a perfect 36D-24-34 body, all natural; standing 5’6” and weighing about 65. We were all happy to meet each other because they were nice as well. We didn’t not talk anything on issue which initiated our contact. But the fact that I could fuck this beautiful lady made my Lund getting harder. After next few days, me and my wife was going for shopping when we received their call. They also agreed to meet at the shopping Mall.

We sat together for coffee and talked to each other. It was decided between Sujeet and me that we will take each other partner for shopping to develop understanding. My wife went with Sujeet and his wife Namita and me went in other direction. Namita was nice and very friendly, which let be feel frank and close. I really enjoyed her company as my Lund was getting hard to see her nice body. We enjoyed time and returned after two hours, as planned. My wife also came back with Sujeet and she was in a very good mood. They were also frank and enjoying.

On our way back home my wife told me that Sujeet was very caring and sweet to her.

We exchanged again few e-mails and then finally decided to have our first date on next Monday when children would be away in school. We also planned that after tea we will go to separately rooms for like one hour. My wife was more nervous then me though she had liked Sujeet. Monday was four days away. These nights during sex I asked my wife to imagine that Sujeet is fucking her. She enjoyed and felt relaxed.

On Monday they arrived on time and we all sat together for quite some time after tea. Nobody was daring to propose to going to rooms. Suddenly we talked about our recent visit to Safari Park and I asked my wife to show the photos to Sujeet. She took Sujeet in our bed room and I invited Namita to another room. When we were in room, I told Namita that she is looking so attractive and nice, in her green dress. I hugged Namita and started kissing her, she also kissed me back and we started French kissing. It was so nice feelings. I opened her bra and took out her boobs one by one. They were not so big but very smooth, nice and soft. I started sucking her nipples. It was nice feeling to have someone other then my wife. Soon her perfectly manicured hands began to undress me. Soon, I was naked as a jaybird as my hard cock proudly stood in attention.

Namita smiled warmly as I removed her dress, letting it fall to the floor. Her body was exquisite. She had an all-over tan which accentuated her shapely legs and her breasts were like sweet cherries. A hard nipple and a trimmed pussy which was soft and silky, make my Lund harder. For a lingering moment, I drank in her beauty as she slowly turned around to give me the total view. Her heart-shaped ass was the finishing touch I had never seen, let alone was about to fuck. I took her totally nude in my arms.

It was amazing warmth and sexy feelings to have another woman in my arms. Namita brought her hand down and caught my Lund and it was amazing nice feeling as my Lund erected so hard aspiring to fuck her. She sat down and took my Lund in her mouth. Very soft lips and warm mouth were giving me extreme pleasure and to see another women sucking my Lund was amazing feelings and I could feel the difference kind of sexual pleasure. I was really on seventh sky and couldn’t control anymore.

Let me describe, my Lund is average-sized, slightly more than 5 inches long, but thick around in circumference. I got hard erection and I could have sex 3-4 times a day. Also, I tend to cum a lot, which has not diminished over the years even though now I am pushing 40. I could not resist her so I pushed her on the bed and put her legs apart and inserted my Lund inside her Vagina. It slide down in her hole and I started to feel such a pleasure which I was never able to feel in my wife, except the first time when I fucked her after marriage.

This may be pleasure of fucking another body, as when we change food, it doesn’t mean it is better than other, but definitely it gives new taste.When I was fucking her in different positions I realized that Sujeet would have been doing the same with my wife. This created more crazy feeling in me as it was first time somebody would have been fucking my wife. This make me feel nice and I started to give her wife more strokes of fucking. Namita was really feeling so blushed up and shy with my fucking and it was evident that she was enjoying this fuck like anything.

After enjoying like an hour, I reach on climax and released deep inside her Vagina. We stayed there nude kissing each other and talking in that position, but we were getting late so we put on our cloths and came out. Listening to out talk Sujeet and my wife also came out. We exchanged few sentences and they beg permission to go. When they left my wife was very quite and didn’t look at me. When she went to kitchen I asked her to sit with me. She was blaming me but I said that it is Ok. After a little talk and understanding she felt comfortable. I asked her did she enjoy? Then she started opening up.

She shared with me and told that how Sujeet kissed her and how he fucked her. I asked her how she felt his Lund entering into her vagina. She immediately blushed so much which showed she enjoyed a lot. I also explained my experience. She also told that she sucked Sujeet’s lund. She thanked me and hugged me. We were really so excited to discuss that we couldn’t resist making love with each other again. We really enjoy this fuck a lot.We received a message from Sujeet and Namita and they were also so happy. New sex experience has really brought a nice feeling in our mood for next few days. After few days we also planned another love date, but this time we decided that we will swap our wives in same place. We also decided that we will make love first and then we will have tea.

When they came Sujeet greeted my wife warmly with a hug and kiss on her lips. We went to sitting room and Sujeet sat close with my wife putting her hands around her. I sat close with Namita and took her in my hands. We started talking. Sujeet kissed my wife on her cheek while talking. In response I also kissed Namita on her on face. Then while I was talking to Namita, Sujeet started talking to my wife and started kissing her on her lips, and then started French kissing with my wife.

I also took Namita close to me and started kissing her. Soon Sujeet took my wife’s boobs out and started sucking them. I was really excited to see my wife boobs being sucked by another man. I also removed Namita’s shirt and trouser and make her totally nude and started kissing her nipples and she caught my erected Lund in her hands. My wife was watching us. Sujeet had also made my wife totally nude and himself as well. oouuff his lund was thick and so much erected and was hard and big.

He hugged my wife by holding her ass tightly in his hands. I was feeling nice and so excited to see that a nude man was hugging my totally nude wife. Now my wife was holding Sujeet’s Lund in her hand.Soon my wife took his Lund in her mouth and started sucking his seven inches Lund and I was watching it. Sujeet started moving his hip to and fro and I could see his Lund was going in and coming out of my wife’s mouth. She kept on sucking his Lund. It was so nice and exciting to see my wife sucking Lund of another man.

I started kissing Namita Vagina and she also took my lund and started sucking it. I was feeling so nice pleasure and enjoying it a lot. Soon Sujeet turned my wife to make doggy position and placed his erected. Lund on my wife vagina and with a push he inserted all of his Lund into her wet vagina. Oouufffff it was so amazing excitement to see his Lund entering into my wife’s vagina. He was holding my wife ass with waist and pushing his erected 7 inches Lund all inside her vagina with nice strokes.

My wife was moaning with pleasure. It seems she was getting best pleasure of her life and I was happy to give her this pleasure. I also put Namita’s legs on my shoulder and inserted my Lund in Namita’s Vagina and started fucking her. I was enjoying it a lot. Sujeet then changed the position and let my wife sit on Sofa and raised her one leg till his shoulder and inserted his Lund again in the vagina of my wife. I could see how his Lund was moving in my wife’s vagina. He was fucking her with pleasure and my wife was really enjoying this pleasure like anything.

After a little while he again changed the position and now my wife was riding on his Lund. I was also changing position and feeling nice soft pussy of Namita. After enjoying nice fuck we were excited and I cum deep inside Namita’s pussy. Sujeet was now again fucking my wife in doggy position and it was a nice view to see him fucking my wife. After a little while he started to cum and was giving hard strokes to my wife. My wife was so horny and excited as I never saw her before. After making love we again sat together with each other totally nude and started talking. It was so nice understanding that we were not feeling any shyness from each other now. My wife and Namita went to Kitchen totally nude and brought tea and snacks which we enjoyed while talking. They left well before our children came from school.

We exchanged some more visits with Sujeet and Namita and every time we enjoyed sex a lot. We realized that Sex is real enjoyment given by nature to man and forbidden with others only because it may gives problems but when there is realization that it is being done for fun and enjoyment with full consent of other partners it brings immense pleasures. Modernized world never consider it a taboo and enjoy more and in better way then we Indians. After that we were able to develop understanding with two other couples and with both of them it was really amazingly nice pleasure.

Me and my wife also enjoyed sex with some others partners separately and it was really a nice experience each time for both of us. My wife was having a cousin who used to love her a lot but couldn’t marry her. Recently, she came across on internet with him. I encourage her to chat with him and be frank this time. Soon she become very close to him. He was really happy to get in contact with his love again. My wife planned few love dates with him, showing that I didn’t know. He fucked my wife a lot on these dates.

He told my wife that he was very sad in his life but now he is full of happiness and excitement. His family and friends could see this positive change in his life. I was surprised how love brings change in life, even if you are not able to marry the person you like.Change really brings excitement, pleasure and enjoyment, which one can never enjoy if confined with one partner. Such change makes our dull life full of excitement. My wife really enjoyed all this too much and she feel nice happy and satisfied in life as our lives are now full of excitement and pleasures. The whole world is not crazy, who enjoy sex. We will like to share our opinion with like mind people but we are afraid of given our address here.